August 1, 2008

OMG, What Happened?

What happened is this: I've gone back and forth, and back and forth (and back and forth, one more time) about "coming out" with my real name and picture on my blog. I finally decided that I'm ready to claim my work, my opinions, my mistakes and my accomplishments for myself.

So, without further ado:


Hi, everyone. My name is Jenn Barnes. That new picture you see in my profile is me. As in, for reals.


RSS and email subscribers: go ahead and click through to look. You know you want to.


45 comments:

The Happy Employee 8/2/08 12:14 AM  

Jenn, what did your support group at Bloggers Anonymous say when you told them about your decision?

I think it's the perfect moment for your "coming out" considering your ever-increasing success and participation in BlogHer, HRM Today and HR Bloggers. Good for you!

The queen / HR Wench is dead, long live the queen / Jenn Barnes ;-)

'netta 8/2/08 5:55 AM  

Oh, thank goodness - I was afraid I'd out you again. Hee. Besides, your so much prettier than the graphic you were using! :>) Can I still call you Wenchie, though?

'netta 8/2/08 5:56 AM  

ACK! *You're* so much prettier!!! That's what I get for posting before breakfast with a toddler hanging on my leg.

Ask a Manager 8/2/08 7:40 AM  

Welcome out! Having done it myself recently, I think it's worth it.

Lance 8/2/08 8:01 AM  

Booyah!

HR Wench 8/2/08 9:13 AM  

Happy - They said "You're good enough and smart enough and gosh darn it, people like you!"

'netta - The blog is still called HR Wench and *I* am still THE HR Wench / Wenchie. But now you can call me Jenn, too! :)

AAM & Lance - Thanks for your support!

Kimberley 8/2/08 9:23 AM  

Yay -- nice to "meet" you Jenn :)

DrJanice 8/2/08 9:33 AM  

Yay Jenn! Now tell *all* - you and I know how fabulous you are!

Anita 8/2/08 9:36 AM  

I, for one, am very happy to meet the real you and look forward to connecting more in the future.
I think you'll be very happy with your decision -- it definitely was the right one for a whole lotta reasons.

HR Wench 8/2/08 9:42 AM  

Kimberley, Dr J & Anita - Thank you!

Franny 8/2/08 10:48 AM  

Betcha it helps you get a perfect job for you, now people know who they're talking to. Congrats!

Lisa 8/2/08 11:04 AM  

So nice to meet you! Take a deep breath, it will be all right. . . Darn, I may just have to post a picture too!

Ann Bares 8/2/08 11:18 AM  

Congrats Jenn! I think it is a great decision. Your blog, your writing and your thoughts are wonderful - 'bout time you stood up and proudly claimed them!

Lady Geraldine 8/2/08 11:24 AM  

Eeep! You're all non-anonymous! Now I have to reconcile Jenn and Wenchie. Jenchie? Wenn? ;)

Jessica 8/2/08 11:53 AM  

Congratulations! :)

HR Wench 8/2/08 12:11 PM  

You guys are the best. Thanks for all of the wonderful support!

HR Minion 8/2/08 1:37 PM  

Congrats on coming out!!! Sorry I'm late to the party, My nose has been planted in a book since last night (when I wasn't getting a quick power nap so I could read more). Nice to meet you again!

critter_TV 8/2/08 1:39 PM  

Hi Jenn, you are brave and I congratulate you for coming out and I agree with other posters here that it is a good idea. You are an excellent writer and should have nothing to hide!
I have enjoyed reading your blogs about human resources. Having worked a little in H.R. myself, there are so many posts here that I have completely related to; there's no doubt in my mind that you are well-informed in the field and you do your homework.

HR Wench 8/2/08 2:42 PM  

Minion - I know exactly what book you're talking about, too! I pre-ordered mine from Amazon and thought I would get it today but I didn't read the fine print :(

Critter - Thank you so much for the compliments!

Laurie 8/2/08 2:51 PM  

I just got home from AA (Ann Arbor) but the timing of

a) returning home from AA

b) and seeing this post

is priceless!

Laurie 8/2/08 2:52 PM  

PS - I want to scream a 60s boomer protest chant for you because I'm so proud that you've come out of the closet, but the only thing in my head is I'M HERE/I'M QUEER/GET USED TO IT.

Funny enough, that's totally appropriate for a blog on HR!

HR Wench 8/2/08 2:58 PM  

Laurie - How about "I'm here, I'm in HR, Wait...where are you going?"

J. William Tincup 8/2/08 6:15 PM  

Jenn, good for you. I'm sure it wasn't an easy decision. Just curious - why did you start with an anonymous moniker and why did you out yourself? It seems like an evolutionary move - but I'd love to hear about how you came to the decision.

Once again, just curious.

Best to you.

William

Dan McCarthy 8/2/08 6:25 PM  

Jenn -
Wow, I come home from vacation and everything's different. But in a good way. It's a pleasure to meet you, and congratulations!

HR Wench 8/2/08 9:39 PM  

JWT - That is a very good question! I'm thinking it's also an upcoming blog post. Stay tuned my friend. :)

Dan - I timed it right, eh? :)

caroline 8/2/08 9:53 PM  

Cool! Good to meet you Jenn! :)

HR Wench 8/2/08 11:32 PM  

C - You too! :)

RMSJr 8/3/08 4:12 AM  

Welcome to this side of the door. We all have secret identities, both revealed and unknown.

HR Maven 8/3/08 5:55 AM  

Congrats! Now you are going to need a professional photography (for all the photo shoots) and a publicist! :)

Here is an interesting question? Do you include your blog writing on your resume?

Undercover 8/3/08 7:47 AM  

Congratulations on the change. As someone who still writes "undercover" I can appreciate the difficulty in coming to this decision. You are courageous!

Undercover Lawyer

HR Wench 8/3/08 9:18 AM  

RMSJR - Kind of a poem!

Maven - No, I don't include it on my resume. But, I'm working on something related to blogging that I will probably soon add to it. Stay tuned!

Undercover - Thanks!

Corey J Feldman 8/3/08 9:50 AM  

That is great. I have been blogging for years but have always been careful to keep my HR career separate. I am starting to change that. I am careful not to discuss anything directly related to my company unless fairly veiled in non specifics, but HR is a huge part of my life, so why not express that side of me. At least until I am world famous novelist, lottery winner or something else that will allow me to give up the day job. Nice to put a face/name to the online presence.

HR Wench 8/3/08 3:31 PM  

Corey - Since I'm unemployed right now things are a bit easier. If I do get another HR job I will have to decide how I'm going to swing things as just "not giving names" won't be enough if people know where I work (and if, horrors!, my co-workers read the blog).

Michael D. Haberman, SPHR 8/3/08 5:35 PM  

Welcome to the fold Wenchie. Funny, everyone who was anonymous said what a difficult decision. I never even considered it. Guess that something about my ego. LOL

Jennifer McClure 8/3/08 6:51 PM  

Congratulations on your decision! I look forward to continuing to read out your HR adventures, misadventures, and the kittehs!

HR Wench 8/3/08 8:53 PM  

Michael - Well, you work for yourself my dear...that's less complicated than explaining your blog to the corp legal team at Widgets, Inc. :) Or maybe I'm just a scaredy cat?

Jen - We're all kittehs, all stations, all the dayz!

Gautam Ghosh 8/4/08 1:30 AM  

hey Jenn welcome !

Virginia 8/4/08 4:59 AM  

Personally, I think the real you is much more to the point than the gruesome one. Congrats on going public.

almostgotit 8/4/08 9:26 AM  

But, you've just invalidated my own post from last Friday -- didn't you get my ping? ;)

I like the new look very much. Coming out while unemployed is a tricky business, I agree, but I think you made the right decision. You should have your own name associated with both your writing and your expertise.

Michael Moore 8/4/08 1:31 PM  

Jenn,

Glad your out and, to be honest, that wench picture kind of scared me.

HR Wench 8/4/08 5:58 PM  

Thanks you guys - this is a record breaking comment string for my blog. I love it!!

Lea Setegn 8/5/08 5:29 AM  

CONGRATS JENN!!!!! Your blog is great and deserves to have your name on it. I hope that potential employers find your blog when they Google you and will read it and realize that you're an awesome catch. :)

I was a journalist for more than 10 years, and I understand how attaching a name to your opinion is scary when it might damage your career. So many employers are nervous about employees having opinions and/or revealing something about the company on a blog. But your boldness in "coming out" proves that you are the right person to make tough professional decisions and stand by them.

GO YOU!!!!

Kelly O 8/5/08 6:48 AM  

Late to the party, but congratulations and I'm really glad to see the face behind the blog.

Bryan 8/5/08 5:06 PM  

Congrats Jenn. Very cool. Your new pic is so much better than the one before! :-)

HR Wench 8/5/08 6:18 PM  

Lea - I'm printing that out and taping it to my monster!

Kelly - You're not late, you made an Entrance :)

Bryan - So I hear...

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